My parents became grandparents when my teen-age little brother and his teen wife brought a child into the world. Initial disappointment in an unplanned pregnancy gave way to family-wide joy with the infancy of a beautiful, happy, precocious little girl. The child came to my parents house almost every weekend while the teen parents did teen age activities. However one weekend the child didn't show. My mother, mad as hell, saw my little brother drive by, got in her Cadillac, pulled him over and demanded to know what was up.... Shaken ... he said, "Mom... we can't leave her with you ... you just won't discipline her." Still enraged my mother promised: "If that little girl EVER does anything wrong, I WILL discipline her."