My wife's family lives in OKC, and we usually stay in a hotel when we go. Stay downtown. We've stayed at the Sheraton (used to be a Westin) and Renaissance. Tried the Skirvin Hilton last time -- that's the place to stay. Old hotel, re-done, nice bar area, close to the restaurants and bars in Bricktown. Oh -- the hotel is supposedly haunted as well. There is a boutique hotel downtown called the Colcord that looks decent, but I've never stayed there